What if We Never Stopped Playing?

All mammals (and even many other animals) play when they are young. It’s how they learn.

When they aren’t afraid to try new things and fun with new experiences, their brains (and bodies) develop and they are able to grow to where they will be successful adults.

And then, in animals just as in humans: it stops. Instead of investing in more growth, they stop playing and they focus on survival and raising young.

From an evolutionary point of view, it makes sense that they would only spend so much time developing and then, when ready, would devote all of their time to raising new copies of their DNA.

But let’s say your primary goal wasn’t just to pass on your genetic material, and you weren’t simultaneously facing all of the challenges of caveman life. Is this really the best way to go about life?

Of course it’s not.

Life is very different now, I’m likely to live much longer than a caveman, and my priorities differ greatly. I think it’s extremely obvious that development should continue long past our mid-twenties.

Now, I’m well aware that primary brain development stops around 26, and that seems to coincide closely with when most people stop “playing” much. I’m not sure to what extend it’s possible to keep learning like a child beyond that time.

But my gut tells me that if you approach new experiences and challenges with child-like enthusiasm and interest, you are very likely to learn new things and develop yourself at any age.

So while I know the “grown-up” thing to do as one ages is to become more serious, stop trying new things, and to focus strictly on production, I just don’t think that’s for me. I think it’s a huge shame to stop playing and trying new things. And it might just be halting development that could easily continue, too.

It may even be possible that the rate of development and improvement enjoyed by children and young adults could by matched long into more advanced ages. It seems to me that if you managed to do so, you would have an incredible advantage over your peers by the time you were middle-aged.

So I think I’ll keep playing!

 

It’s Amazing that I Still Don’t Have Time

I barely leave the house, and yet I still feel like I barely have any time to get things done at all.

My experience makes me feel like I have nothing in common at all with other people. Maybe it’s because  actual hobbies have become a dying pastime.

But I’ve been filling all of my days with work, learning/studying, exercising, socializing, house/yard work, and of course other hobbies like kayaking, disc golfing, etc.

And I feel like I’m really productive, but at the same time, there still just isn’t enough time. I’ve found that I’m never even close to bored, I’m never sitting around doing nothing (or even just watching TV for fun), and I rarely finish everything I set out to finish for the day.

And the bigger problem is that I’m not finishing some of the very most-important things I’m supposed to be doing. There are major, long-term projects in my business that are critical to my future success that I’m not getting done.

Maybe I just thought that with everything shut down, it would be easy to get all of these things done. But obviously that won’t be the case for me.

So now I’m left wondering if I need to start cutting some things out or limiting certain activities more, even if they are productive.

Or maybe it’s just a case of needing to delegate more in my business. I think that, along with the sense of “having more time”, I’ve started to take on more of the development work myself. That’s time that could fairly easily be freed-up by delegation.

Maybe the answer really is that simple. I guess I’ll have to think more about that.

Either way, it truly is important that I figure out how to get these important long-term things done. My career depends on it!

News Diet Update and Reflections

It’s been something like 9 days since I gave up reading the news and all forms of social media feeds. And it feels… strange!

The first thing is that it’s really odd just how quickly something that seemed so important and relevant can feel so completely distant and irrelevant.

I’m speaking, of course, of the pandemic. So far I’m fortunate enough to not have suffered any losses personally or professionally as a result. And my day-to-day is virtually unaffected, since I already stayed at home most of the time to work even before the pandemic, and most of the activities I do for fun aren’t really impacted either.

So in any given day, it really feels as though there is zero impact to my life as a result. And when I’m not reading about it or talking about it, eventually it ceases to feel important.

I’ve also been extremely productive during this time. In addition to having more time to do things, I also feel better and am more motivated.

So I’m really starting to wonder about the actual cost of reading and caring about the daily news.

Clearly I’m not advocating total ignorance, but really, the vast majority of news has no impact on me at all, and of the remainder, I typically have no ability to change.

So ultimately, the rewards of keeping up every day are virtually non-existent, but the cost is extremely high.

While I think I’ll still check in from time-to-time, I think I just need to acknowledge that following most news is just another form of mindless entertainment with no benefit other than killing time; just like social media, most television, and (in my humble opinion) sports viewership.

I am better off without it.

Going to Get Back into Focusing on One Thing

Since early on when I went to Mexico, I haven’t focused on my “One thing” that I’m supposed to be focusing on. I have times scheduled into my calendar to do it, but I haven’t done it!

The world’s been crazy and so has my life, but this isn’t really about excuses. It’s just time to move forward with all of my plans.

Last week was my first one back home, and I really wanted to work on developing good habits. I think I did that.

This week I’m just furthering that along and also getting quite a bit of things done around the yard.

Next week, it’s time to get back into doing my “One Thing”.

It’s what will carry me through, and what will truly lead to success. I need to focus on it every single day if I want to accomplish what I’ve set out to do.

I need to start by going over everything I’ve prepared in terms of the plan. Then when I’m reacquainted with everything, I need to execute.

Keep in mind: virtually all of my future success rests upon me doing these things now. So do it!

New Habit – Getting out of Bed When I Wake Up

I’ve spoken at length in the past about how important habits are and how I should constantly be developing them.

I don’t think I’ve really been focusing on one in a while, and it’s time to start!

At the moment I’m doing a good job of waking up without hitting snooze. I’m also on a news diet and am avoiding Facebook and other sources of current-event information as well.

And Imgur is blocked on my phone.

So there isn’t much pointless entertainment left on my phone, which means I don’t even have anything to do in bed after I wake up.

Why not just get up?

I’ve wanted to do this for many years, and I think now I’m finally ready for it. It will add a ton of productive time to my week, and will let me finish things way faster.

So, I’ll do it! I’ll post more about it here as I progress.

News Diet – Feel so Much Better

I’ve decided, for the time being, to just completely avoid the news. And also the Facebook news feed and all other types of social media.

And you know what? I feel so much better!

Historically I had more or less followed this strategy but with the pandemic I feel back into following-up on everything.

I can see why smart, well-educated people who keep current on things are always so pessimistic! The news makes you anxious, all the time.

And Facebook just makes me angry. So many people just believe and spread the most insane, baseless crap.

But when I’m not consuming any of it… I feel great!

I’ve come to a bit of a realization, too: the news, and keeping up on current events does not improve my life literally at all. I have no control over them, but they have tremendous control over me.

I do, however, have control of many things in my life. I can focus on me and on building my business and my friends and family. And those will only lead to good things.

I’m not saying I shouldn’t ever learn about current events or anything (though I AM saying that maybe I don’t ever need the Facebook news feed…), but I think the vast majority of “content” I consume should be from books and other reputable sources that actually give the full picture instead of just fear-mongering and showing me all the idiots.

I can insulate myself from those people just by doing really, really well in my own life. Finding my own success will be the way I drown out the things I have no control over anyway.

It’s really quite amazing how quickly I started to feel less anxious and happier after avoiding the news. If I’m reading this in the future, I hope I remember that!

I’ve Always Been Restless but My Interpretation of that has Completely Changed

I feel like I’ve always been quite restless. I’m always thinking about the future and my current state and get a bit antsy.

But in the past, I feel like it made me uneasy and anxious. Now it makes me feel motivated.

So what changed?

I wish I could say it was some huge, profound realization inside myself that allowed me to break old scripts and get out of self-destructive patterns.

But it wasn’t at all.

I owed a lot of money before, and now I don’t. That’s it.

More specifically: I owed a lot of bad money like credit card debt, and it wasn’t really going away at all. It wasn’t growing much but it was still always this huge burden that made it feel like I wasn’t succeeding at all.

Recently, after a string of good financial moves, I’ve been able to quickly pay off a ton of debt, including all credit card debt. Every month, I’m able to pay everything down to zero on personal cards and in my business. I also paid off my student loans completely.

And it’s made all the difference.

In the past, I’d be thinking about the future and just worry about all the debt I had, and how it’s been years and I still hadn’t managed to really get control of things financially. It always just felt like this specter I couldn’t get away from.

And when I started feeling that way, I feel like it just turned to general anxiety and actually crippled me from getting things done and really succeeding, which probably kept me in that state a lot longer than I should have been.

But now that’s gone! I’m running a massive surplus of cash every month which I can use to pay off anything or even start investing. Whereas before it felt like I had no opportunities at all, now I can do anything I want!

And so when I feel that familiar sense of unease, I’m interpreting it as excitement and a sense of unlimited possibility in the future, and that’s actually quite liberating and motivating. Suddenly I feel like if I really focus on something, I can really take this business off the ground and do whatever I’d like with it.

That’s a great feeling.

And it really just comes down to interpreting how I’m feeling differently, not even necessarily feeling differently. I think the Buddhists would have a lot to say about that, but it’s still a really interesting thing to experience myself.

I Need to Make the Most of my Time Here in Mexico

So I was finally able to rent out my bedroom and get out of the country. That’s the good news.

The bad news, is the coronavirus.

It’s starting to look like I’ll soon be quarantined inside here, and I’ll be here for two full months just about. Most of that time may be spent in my own apartment!

But I don’t want to waste my time here. It’s easy to just get lost in the news or doing nothing productive, but I really want to make the most of it even if I end up stuck inside.

With work, that means re-focusing on my “one thing”. It means being productive when I’m supposed to be working and concentrating on long-term success.

For everything else, I just want to make sure I’m concentrating as well. I want to do a lot of reading, studying Spanish, and even speaking in Spanish with people. I think I’m going to have to start scheduling italki lessons because there’s nobody to meet here! Everything is closed. And what’s not: I shouldn’t be going to.

So, I’m in a bit of a dilemma. But it doesn’t have to be terrible.

Worst case, I watch every sunset from the balcony, have a pint of Corona, and wait for this all to blow over.

What if Most Businesses Grow Because they Invest Money, Regardless of What In?

Today’s thoughts are a little difficult to explain, but I’ll do my best.

The background to this is that I’ve determined I could probably turn money into new clients fairly reliably by purchasing other businesses. It’s a bit costly, but it works.

Most other businesses also grow and also invest money in opportunities, though they don’t typically acquire other businesses.

But my thought is basically this: what if they are only growing because they invested money at all, regardless of where they put it?

Obviously there are free forms of marketing, though they usually take time and therefor have a real opportunity cost, so in my opinion it’s the same in the end.

So if monetary investment of any kind is what leads to growth, acknowledging that fact has some very profound ramifications.

It would essentially mean that if you want to grow, you need to have extra cash on hand in order to invest in worthwhile activities. Without that budget, you’ll struggle to grow.

I think you could also simplify all forms of marketing and just say that all marketing you can invest in has an expected rate of return and acquisition cost for new clients, and while your goal is of course to maximize return and minimize costs, ultimately you’re going to have to spend money regardless.

Furthermore, given your limited resources, why not do everything you can to find the investment options with the highest ROI, and then invest everything into that?

Why bother diversifying at all?

I think so many businesses have so much on their plate with trying to run a bunch of social media pages and accounts, email marketing, SEO, trade shows, branded merchandise, various advertising, and much more.

But at the end of the day, all of those cost something and all of them have differing ROIs. Nothing should really matter other than the ROI, so why would you bother diversifying to that extent?

I think you should find what works best, and then put everything into it.

And now that you’ve found what works, and you’ve acknowledged that all you’re doing at this point is turning cash into growth for your business, the question becomes: how can I free up as much cash as possible so I can grow as fast as possible?

That is, assuming growth is your goal. But this is capitalism, so growth should basically always be the goal. Anyone who is putting any effort into marketing but doesn’t seem to think they want to grow (or more commonly: doesn’t actually have the capacity or ability to handle growth), is confused and should reconsider his priorities.

Historically, I’ve spent almost nothing on marketing; I’ve only put in my time. Which worked for a while, but obviously has a limit. I only have so much time, but money could grow forever.

I feel like I can see a future where I’ve figured out where to put my marketing dollars, where I’m putting everything I make back in and keep the ball rolling. It seems predictable and safe.

But as long as I accept this model as accurate and worthwhile, my mindset needs to shift completely. Whereas in the past my thoughts were always on marginally improving things and… I actually don’t really know what I was trying to do. I guess just grow “naturally”, whatever that means?

But whereas that, my goal now should literally just be to make as much money as possible now, take advantage of my credit, and invest as much as I can into growth. And as I take on more clients and have more recurring revenue, use that cash to grow even faster.

Unfortunately, I’m at a point at this exact moment where I don’t have much cash, and I’m not making a huge amount more than what I need to survive. I do have credit available, and I did just buy a business that will give me extra funds on a yearly basis.

But I’ll need to really think about where my dollars are going now, and how I can leverage them to trigger growth long-term.

As a follow-up side note: I don’t mean to imply that marketing initiatives that take up my time or can’t immediately be utilized or scaled up by spending more money aren’t worthwhile. There’s still room for a cohesive marketing strategy, and content marketing, SEO, and possibly social media advertising may still all end up being pieces of what I’m doing.

But they are all investments, and they need to be treated as such and possibly given money to be allowed to achieve their full potential.

I also don’t know exactly which options are going to have the best ROI for me. That’s part of what I’ll be working on over the coming months.

But if I can buy clients at the rate of $144 each, then that’s the metric to compare against. If I can find a way to acquire clients for less than that, it sounds like a good place to start dumping money.

And as a final side-note: for a typical client, I will likely make more profit than $144/year. So if my acquisition cost is less than that, it means that they’ll be profitable after a single year. And then after that, those profits could be used to acquire 1 new client.

Which means that technically, I should be able to double in size each year if I do things right.

Of course there are taxes and some other expenses that seem fixed will inevitably grow with the business, but even so, I should be able to grow very rapidly if I do this right.

I Need to Develop a More Robust Marketing Strategy

I’ve been reading a lot of books recently as part of my “One Thing” each day to help prepare me for all of my upcoming marketing plans. And I’ve concluded that there are quite a few things I’m going to need to do.

In addition to rethinking my positioning, rewriting my website content, putting together landing pages, and testing out different advertising options, I think I’m also going to need to plan out email marketing strategies and automation campaigns.

While I haven’t thought all of this through just yet, it’s become clear to me that I probably won’t be able to just put an ad on Facebook and have people purchase my services without any additional interactions.

Most likely, it will require me to turn them into subscribers of some kind first, and then eventually they will buy from me after enough interactions.

Unfortunately, it’s all just quite a bit more complicated and will take much more work than initially anticipated.

One interesting thing I read about is the difference between high-risk and low-risk sales. Unfortunately, I’ve found very little information regarding how to sell the two differently, which is very odd.

Low-risk sales are considered those of less than $200. My services could certainly fall under that category if billed monthly. So if nothing else, a good insight here is that monthly payment options should definitely be considered for new clients because the barrier to purchase is so much lower.

But even as a low-risk service, I think people perceive that going with us for any of our services is a very important business decision, and that they need to be cautious in their choices with it.

I’ve had a couple other interested thoughts recently that are unrelated.

The first is the fact that the clients we want to work with already have WordPress sites, and that we don’t need to sell them at all on WordPress itself. They already understand its value.

And with that in mind, I thought of a brief tagline of sorts that I thought sort of represented our value to those people.

“WordPress is hard. We make it easy.”

Perhaps a bit too simple, but maybe not! It’s not exactly praising WordPress itself, but to a business owner who is struggling with maintaining a WordPress site, they’ll get it. 

That’s all I have for now. I’ll be reading a few more books and then hopefully moving on to the rest of the tasks.